Merriam-Webster defines gaslighting as “psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typically leads to confusion, loss of confidence and self-esteem, uncertainty of one’s emotional or mental stability, and a dependency on the perpetrator.”
If this is not the perfect articulation of what the racial justice movement is experiencing right now, we don’t know what is.
When we think of the line of reasoning the Supreme Court used to declare affirmative action unconstitutional – that America is a race neutral, color-blind society – it is the textbook definition of gaslighting given that we’ve libraries full of research and countless lived experiences to prove the premise of “race neutrality” as unequivocally false.
But this sort of gaslighting around racism is quintessential to the American experience and one of the key tactics keeping racism alive, despite the progress made.
Let’s consider what Simply Psychology identifies as nine types of gaslighting and pair them with some of the most reliable anti-racial justice rhetoric we hear.
DENIAL
“The Civil War wasn’t about slavery. It was about Northern aggression and defending the Southern way of life”
Shifting Blame
“Black people are the problem. They just can’t get their act together.”
Minimizing
“Sure there’s racism, but Blacks should just be grateful to be here.”
Withholding
“I don’t want my kids to learn about the history of slavery. It will make them feel bad about themselves.”
Countering
“Slavery was a long time ago. Why do we have to talk about it now?”
Discrediting
“The only reason he/she/they got to be so successful is because of affirmative action.”
Deflection
“But what about Black-on-Black crime?”
Loving Words as Weapons
“America is a race-neutral, colorblind, melting pot.”
Rewriting History
“Slavery wasn’t so bad. The slaves were taken care of and they learned a trade.”
From the founding of this nation, the powers-that-be have perfected the art of denial when it comes to issues of racism, insulting our intelligence and instituting all sorts of Jedi mind tricks to cause us to second guess what we know to be true.
It is important that movement leaders understand that what we’re witnessing is out of the same old playbook. Whether it’s attempts to sanitize history books or the new batch of slavery apologists who’d have us believe that “slavery wasn’t so bad”, such racial backlash is designed to distract from the truth and the promise of a fair and just society.
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If you’re tired of being gaslit on the role of racism in America, join the campaign today. We must build a sustained resistance that allows us to “push back” on the powers that have committed to “rolling back” the clock.